Who the F*%k am I?


“Choose Again.”

I am just me – nothing special; A half-bred Shawnee Native/Danish Emigrant – 110% American…confused to my DNA. I am abnormal; with the tendency to be anti-social. I suffer from CPTSD and anxiety issues that have enslaved me in past times – that realistically may enslave me again, someday… who knows?

I have survived a near-fatal marriage and am not blind to the dark ways of the human race. I am ALL ABOUT offering support to people in need of it – in pretty much ANY context…I’m not a mutant. I am not a saint. I am not here to pass judgement on anybody or look down my nose.

I am just trying to be and let be. If I am able to offer support and help or gain insight from others along the way – that’s a plus in my opinion. I’d say that “I don’t bite”, but that’d make me a liar so I’ll leave it at “I’m approachable”; come say hello.

I am not here to fuck with anybody, so please do not be mean-spirited, or project your life’s baggage at me or my blogs.

Because, as much as Yours Truly may represent the good fight; and as true it may be that I am a lover – not a fighter; uncalled-for and ugly behavior just might win you an unexpected response from me in the wrong circumstances for you; RECOGNIZE.

I have ZERO tolerance for judgmental hypocrites online – FYI. Troll elsewhere.

I won’t lie down for your insecurities, and don’t ask you to lie down for mine…

I do not deny my own tendencies toward all things unhealthy…

I am human as it gets until I’m cornered into behaving like a wild animal, just sayin’…minty1


104 thoughts on “Who the F*%k am I?

  1. ethosbrain says:

    Thanks for follow … your blog is fucking awesome.

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Could you be any prettier?

    Liked by 2 people

  3. Ward Clever says:

    I haven’t read your posts yet, but you are definitely a strong and wise woman for having gone through what you have mentioned just on this very page. I admire you for that alone. You must be a huge inspiration for a lot of people!

    Liked by 2 people

  4. Um…secrets n stuff…rotffl.


  5. JodiLea says:

    I love the quotes, posters and drawings! Are you the artist?

    Liked by 2 people

  6. Do you have an email address i can contact you on?

    Liked by 1 person

  7. mandy says:

    Hi A! Hope you are doing okay. I think of you often and never forget how much you mean to me. โค
    I’m doing a post on DV victims and how we need shelters for them AND their pets so they don’t stay. I’ll NEVER forget your story of the final day with your husband killing your dog and then (almost) you.
    I would like to ask your permission to link that post you wrote about that. I will NOT if you’d rather I not. If not, would you mind if I mentioned a “fellow blogger” that lived with an animal abuser, too? If it IS okay, please reply with that link so I get it right. It’s your call babe. I will not if you’d rather.
    Tomorrow I’m attending a DV workshop put on by our local women’s Services center. I want to advocate for DV survivors too, and you sweetie, are my #1 hero. Manz

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  8. Nimmi says:


    I’m so glad to inform you that you are one of my “THE DRAGONโ€™S LOYALTY AWARD” nominee. So, a big congratulations to you.
    You can find all of the details here:

    Keep Rocking!! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  9. nikibayard says:

    just saying… cool.
    loved ‘a slow drink’, yep seen, understood, your poor pa, he is just loving.

    Liked by 1 person

  10. I love your Favorite Quotes on your sidebar!

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  11. Say, quick question – any idea why ‘kindred words’ has turned into my primary site, and ‘eleganceindeliciousverse’ no longer is? just curious hoping you might have an answer before I seek out the WordPress minions! Happy 4th!

    Liked by 2 people

  12. beeseeker says:

    Just a brief note to say thanks for finding the time and energy to like my post “Sorry”.
    Hope to get back for a serious check out of your writing when I have some quality time.
    meanwhile, keep breathin’

    Liked by 1 person

  13. Darque says:

    I am a new follower to your blog, I found you by following a link from the WordPress blog by “georgeforfun”. I find your honesty refreshing here on your “About Me” page & look forward to reading future posts.

    Liked by 1 person

  14. Hello! Americana Injustica.

    I very much like how honest you are in this About me page.
    You seem cool, down to earth person.

    I’m looking forward to reading your blog post.

    You should stop by my page and see if you like.

    My name is Charlie Zero by the way. It’s a pleasure to make your acquaintance. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Liked by 2 people

  15. kauaiartist says:

    Who the fuck you are is a gorgeous woman with great taste in poetry. This is me thanking you for liking my poem (Tinhorn) on my blog WordMusic.

    Brent Kincaid

    Liked by 2 people

  16. amandahharris says:

    Love the layout, the attitude, the message. Keep writing!

    Liked by 1 person

  17. jack kain says:

    That may be the most honest intro that I have read. Looking forward to reading more about the way the world looks from your eyes……( I hope that did not sound corny or off)

    Liked by 2 people

  18. Exposed Loving says:

    I dig your honesty…just sayinโ˜บ

    Liked by 1 person

  19. yasniger says:

    Thank you for showing interest in what I put out. I sincerely hope you continue to find my posts entertaining & pleasurable. Be safe.

    Liked by 1 person

  20. Great post…thanks for reading mine. I do find your first line to be a little self deprecating, not that my opinion of what you say should have any baring but you are special, you are the most special person in the world, your world. Many people fail to see that they are all that really counts. You are the only one you wake up with and the only one you got to bed with. If you have a partner they should think the same to but about themself and they should also recognize how special it is to find a significant other and share the gift of double happiness. I’m kinda tired so I’m not sure if this is coming out right or not? You are an absolute powerhouse of a woman. It takes guts to spill shit onto a page for the whole world to read and it’s not silly to say that many people aren’t as brave as you are. You probably feel at times that your words might be worthless but they are so not and you seem to hit chords with many people. Keep it up and don’t doubt yourself. Your insecurities stem from parental neurosis and your past and at times they are hard to overcome but once you realize they’re not really yours and the past has passed life gets a little easier. Blogging is very cathartic, or me anyway. If i don’t put words on the page my brain becomes clogged. Keep doing what you’re doing ๐Ÿ˜‰

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  21. Staying Frosty says:

    I dig that intro! You’re the best!

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  22. What a powerful introduction ๐Ÿ™‚ Hi there!

    Liked by 1 person

  23. jghemlock says:

    Loved it! You’re fearfully and wonderfully made! (and you are beautiful and talented to boot!) You remind me of a WARRIOR. You have a powerful presence and a warrior spirit of Hashem! Rock on! And that is what separates you for ‘your’ calling!

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  24. Clearly edgy with a delight to conquer with a delicate respect! thanks for the visit.

    Liked by 1 person

  25. deanjbaker says:

    this was well said and enjoyable

    Liked by 2 people

  26. Rise above says:

    Thank you for the “like” bomb on my blog, I appreciate the message you’re spreading.

    Choose positivity


    Liked by 2 people

  27. m says:

    I love your writing. So I went and nominated you for the ‘One Lovely Blog Award.’ ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Liked by 2 people

  28. prospermind says:

    Hi there,
    first off: Wow!! What an amazing about page, certainly makes me want to read more.. I’m glad I came across your blog, because there obviously is A LOT to discover and to read through on here and it definitely got my attention. I can already tell, that I like the way you think! ๐Ÿ˜‰

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  29. Wow, thank you very much and welcome!!!
    I am so grateful to share strength with others – two way street – here’s to empowerment and encouragement! HUGS.

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  30. Boundaries clearly set and very well stated, AI. I am a fan already.

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  31. JMC813 says:

    Couldn’t agree more with the way you roll here. Just had to say thanks for the follow. I hope you find many things that amuse, terrify, or just make you think out loud. Like what I am seeing here so far and looking forward to reading more. Following. Have a great weekend and keep inspiring.

    John (JMC813)

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  32. hafong says:

    Yes, you have a powerful introduction! I thank you for your visit. Wishing you well.


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  33. mihrank says:

    such powerful introduction! Bravo!


  34. marcus says:

    I’ll be visiting and howling
    peace, love and wagging tails along the way

    and thank you for your visits to my woods, always welcome whenever you find the time


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  35. Thank you for stopping by and following Storyteller. — Ray

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  36. beeseeker says:

    have just found your blog: curious to see who has been looking at
    and found this about post intriguing.
    I hope to be back when I have more quality time.
    (I am about to embark on a weekend trip to Estonia.)
    where I hope to continue to be human ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Liked by 1 person

  37. Die Trying says:

    Hello friendly blogger ๐Ÿ™‚ I have nominated your blog for the Peace and Justice Award and would be happy if your could except and enjoy! – http://dietrying999.wordpress.com/2014/03/26/in-a-world-of-balance-there-is-peace-and-justice/

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  38. As you know, sister survivor, I love your blog and your work here. So, I’ve nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award! More info here http://avalancheofthesoul.wordpress.com/2014/03/24/seven-random-factoids-versatile-blogger-award/

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  39. Thanks for the drop by and like. Life is a journey that is nothing more or less of what you make it. Personally, I enjoy going through looking at life through clear lenses, not rose colored lenses, throwing in a sense of humor at just the right time to keep it light. I wish you well on your journey and always remember that if you stick your tongue out while smiling at a random person once a day will not only make you feel great, it will also leave them stupefied for hours on end. The one and only Rural Iowegian.

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  40. Jodi Lea says:

    Hi, recently my blog, Not Pretending (to be sane) was nominated for the Liebster Award. Thank you, Willow ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Part of the award acceptance is to nominate 11 up and coming blogs. One of the blogs I am nominating is your blog. If you are interested to participate in this bloggers award, please visit my post:
    Award Post
    Once you accept the nomination, please send me the link to your Award post.

    Thanks, and happy blogging to you ๐Ÿ™‚

    Liked by 1 person

  41. I am also so sad to read about your daughter being missing ๐Ÿ˜ฆ this is so sad. I Hope things improve, how early in her life did she start taking drugs ๐Ÿ˜ฆ x


    • Thank you for your good energy; it’s really a debilitating predicament for me…
      my daughter started using meth at age 14, immediately following a sexual assault at the hands of an adult therapist she was court-ordered to see…
      her story is so tragic…
      thanks again for taking your own time out of your own day to wish me well, duly noted.

      Liked by 1 person

  42. Hello, just wanted to say thank you for following me, your blog seems really interesting and I’m looking forward to more posts ๐Ÿ™‚ hope my blog is jut as interesting to read lol. How long have you been blogging on here, and where you from? x


  43. sorry for the late acknowledgement but i just wanted to ty for the follow,
    encouragement is always greatly appreciated.

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